New Steamy Sewing Patterns

I've found some new steamy patterns!

Butterick 5797 - Corset and shrug/bolero - I'm not really wild about the corset in this pattern.  It's really short, so it looks more like a corset top than a real corset.  But it might work if you want something more modern for clubbing and the like.  The jacket on the other hand is really awesome, and I'll probably end up making it.  I'll buy this pattern just for the jacket.
McCall 6615 - "Footwear Toppers"- The first thing I said when I saw this was "What the fuck are those?"  I stand by that statement.  However, one of the versions are actually shaped something like a spat for a high heeled boot.  It has front laces.  Have fun.
Simplicity 1780 - Misses Bolero Jackets and Vests.  Yet another bolero pattern.  But some nice options, like the vest (the one WITHOUT fake fur) and the short sleeve jackets.

Ok, that's mostly it from the major pattern companies.  But I've found some neat free online patterns and sewing tutorials.

Favourite Frills Skirt - Free downloadable pattern for a very stylish modern office skirt with back bustle-y frills.  Great for everyday steampunk.
Everywear Tails - Fantastic halter-style vest with tails.

The next links are to the fantastic (if defunct) Weekend Designer blog that offers guides to drafting your own patterns to your measurements.  It has step by step guides to drawing the patterns and then assembling the items.  Great stuff.

Double Breasted Waistcoat - A woman's vest that is pretty much tailor made for steampunk.  I want to make this and I don't even need a vest, since I'm always in corsets.
Haberdashery Belt - A vest-style belt.  I can see using this as a starting place for some corselets.
Custom Vest Pattern Drafting - Making a custom man's vest pattern.
Wide Brimmed Summer Hat - The instructions are for a floppy cloth summer hat, but could also be wired and covered in feathers and STUFF for a huge Edwardian hat.
Off-shoulder ruffled blouse - This could work if you want something fairly simple for under a corset.  Maybe with a smaller ruffle, especially.

Corsetmaking Resources and Tutorials

Here is a list of the corsetmaking posts on this blog:

Some Thoughts on Corsets - A discussion of what is and isn't a corset and things to keep in mind when shopping for corsets.
Corset Patterns - A list of links to all major corset patterns, along with thoughts on each.
How to Tell a Quality Corset from a Not-so-great Corset - especially if you're just looking at pictures on the internet.
A Roundup of Links to Corset Information Elsewhere

Corsetmaking Series
Corsetmaking Part 1: Drafting and Mock-Up
Corsetmaking Part 2: Corset Materials - What materials to use and where to buy them.
Corsetmaking Part 3: Corset Construction - A discussion of the three best ways to construct a corset, with pros and cons of each and links to tutorials.
Corsetmaking Part 4: The Folded Seam Method of Corset Construction - A step-by-step tutorial of my favorite corset construction method and the one I recommend to beginners.

Other Tutorials:
How to Correctly Insert Grommets - Step-by-step tutorial on inserting grommets so that they won't pop out.
How to Add Faux Exterior Channels to a Corset - Tutorial on adding faux channels to a corset.
Repairing a Worn Corset - How to reinforce the rear edges of a worn corset to extend its life.
Cutting and Tipping Steel Bones with Heat Shrink Tubing

Corset Myths Series:
Corset Myth #1: Corsets are Painful
Corset Myth #2: You Can't Breathe in a Corset
Corset Myth #3: Corsets are Bad for Your Health

Corset Buying Advice Series:
Corset Buying Advice and Where Not To Buy a Corset, Part 1
Where Not to Buy a Corset, Part 2: Corset Story 
Where You SHOULD Buy a Corset, Part 1
Where You SHOULD Buy a Corset, Part 2

Gratuitous Self Promotion

If you have a moment, consider wandering over to this Facebook link and clicking 'Like.'  I am in a contest to have a miniature figure made of my costume.  I don't expect to win, but it would be neat!

Thanks,
Baroness Violet

Socializing Steampunks: Thoughts for Those New and Not-so-new

Steampunk is a lot of things.  For many of us, it's a reason to dress up and an excuse to make cool things.  But steampunk isn't just an art style or an aesthetic.  It's also a community, a subculture, a collection of like-minded people.

It's not enough to sit in our homes making cool things; we want to go out, show them off, meet other people with cool stuff to show off.   And sometimes this is where we run into trouble.  Some of us aren't very good at social interaction, at being in new settings.  Some of us have run into trouble with our fellow steampunks, or grown tired or bitter over certain behaviors.  So these are some thoughts that have been going on in my mind.

Part I: Tips for Those New to Steampunk

The first thing to remember is that everyone, or ALMOST everyone, gets nervous when going into a new social environment where they don't know anyone.  You're not alone in feeling that way.  I've suffered from social anxiety a lot over the years, but I have overcome it to a certain extent.  I have a tendency to want to back out of going to a social event at the last minute, because I get too nervous.   For the most part I avoid that by making it impossible to do.  I commit money to events, I arrange to go with friends, I make plans to see people somewhere, I do a bunch of things that mean that backing out would probably end up being more embarrassing than going.  (I mean, if you tell everyone you know that you're going to an awesome convention and then you end up not going, it's going to be weird to explain to people, right?)

Some people, upon encountering the steampunk community en masse, feel left out of the loop.  This is a really common reaction of newbies, I think.  But it's not unique to steampunk.  Any time you show up to an event without knowing anyone, and the majority of the people there know each other, chances are you're going to feel left out.  It's honestly not that steampunks aren't welcoming.  They aren't snubbing you, I promise.  It's just that they are excited to be around each other and are busy greeting and catching up with their friends.  This tends to work out worst in very short gatherings, like a one night event or couple hour long meetup.  Established steampunks spend all their time with people they already know and don't have time to get to know newbies.  So weekend long events are really best if you're looking to make friends.

One thing to keep in mind if you encounter a situation like this: yes, all these people seem to be part of an "in-crowd."  But I guarantee that ALL of them were once in your own shoes.  At some point they showed up at a steampunk event not knowing anyone, or knowing very few people.  And they may have felt just as awkward as you do, but somehow they got past it and eventually became part of this community.

My first encounter with the steampunk community wasn't a positive one.  I'm going to be vague about the event and location of it to avoid calling anyone out, but it wouldn't be hard to figure it out.  Anyway, my husband and I decided to put together steampunk costumes for a large convention.  It was my first con of any kind, and I really was only going for an excuse to dress steampunk.  We put together our costumes mostly from thrift stores.  I didn't know how to sew at all then.  But despite the honestly rudimentary level of our costumes (at least mine) I was proud of them.  We showed up to the con and got dressed up and headed to the "Steampunk Social."  It was a meeting room with some chairs, some music playing, and a bunch of people.  It was pretty obvious, after some time, that the people standing in groups in the middle of the room knew each other.  They also had the nicest costumes.  The people sitting on the outskirts in chairs weren't talking to anyone and had more thrift store looking costumes.  After sitting on the outskirts myself, I gathered my courage and went to stand close to the chatting steampunks.  No one approached us.  I walked up to two girls who were talking and complementing one of them on her hat.  She looked at me, didn't say anything, and went back to her conversation.  I felt like I had broken some kind of rule by commenting on her hat.  I became more dismayed as I studied what people were wearing and started feeling like though some of the outfits were gorgeous, they were BOUGHT that way.  I was proud of our hand-made costumes and didn't like seeing what I put down as ready-made steampunk outfits.

Now, I was definitely right about SOME of these people's outfits.  But the assumption I made that just because something was elaborate and impressive it wasn't made by the wearer: that was a totally incorrect assumption.  (I know because I get incredulity from newbies when they find out I made my outfits and corsets.)  My husband and I left soon after, probably having stayed for only about 20 minutes and not talking to anyone.  I've heard similar stories from others in the community.

What did I do right and wrong in that example?  First of all, I think it was a difficult venue to try to break into steampunk.  Like I said, a brief gathering during a very busy con isn't really the ideal environment to meet people.  Really involved steampunks are probably busy with con events, presenting panels, vending, or just catching up with friends.  I probably would have done better to approach people in steampunk dress separately over the con weekend, especially if I saw anyone sitting, smoking, or otherwise just hanging out.  However, I did do right by approaching that girl and trying to start a conversation about her hat.  She just was apparently a bitch, or otherwise distracted.

Cause here's the awesome thing about steampunk: people want to talk about their creations!  All you have to do to start a conversation with a steampunk is to walk up and compliment them on some part of their outfit.  Pick something specific.  You can say, "I love your outfit," but follow it with, "especially that arm bracer, that's so cool."  If that doesn't immediately start a conversation follow it with, "Did you make that?"  Chances are that they did, or they know the person who did.  If they made it, you're set.  Show genuine interest in how something is made and it's almost impossible to resist getting into a long conversation about the creation  process.  If you express further interest in wanting to learn to do similar things yourself, chances are they will tell you how to do it, or give you tips on where to find out.  (If it's me, I'll then hand you a card pointing you to this blog.)  This is actually the best thing about making friends through steampunk: the built in topics of conversation.  And don't worry about bothering someone.  Even when we're busy, we always genuinely appreciate compliments on our outfits.  Although if we ARE really busy, we might run away quickly, but it's not personal.

Another tip for newbies: don't be afraid to look ignorant.  You don't have to pretend you know everything about steampunk.  If you don't understand something, or don't know something, or just want to know how to get more information about something, ASK.  Maybe you don't have much of a costume but you WANT to put one together.  Ask people for tips on how to do that.  Of course, most cons have panels to teach just these kinds of things, but we're looking for ways to meet people, and again, steampunks generally LOVE talking about these things.  We're always talking about where to find things and how to make things with each other anyway.  If you want to know about steampunk books, movies, RPGs, whatever, ask around.   Don't be ashamed of being new, but respect that people sometimes ARE busy or otherwise occupied, so don't FORCE yourself on someone else's time, either. Chances are if you talk to someone at one point in a con for a brief time, you will run into them again, at which point you can say hi and try to talk some more.

Another good place to meet people is the dealer's room.  As a dealer, I notice that I spend much more time talking to newbies than other more established steampunks.  But really, somebody behind a dealer table is probably bored and willing to talk, especially if you want to talk about what they're selling.  Make sure you're not blocking traffic to their table if you're not actively shopping, but if things aren't busy, chances are the dealers would welcome some questions. It's also totally fine to say, "I don't have any money right now, but I really like your stuff," and then talk about it.  Unless the dealer happens to be a total jerk, which, let's face it occasionally happens.  But not that often.

Finally, don't expect to find a new best friend at a con.  Though, of course you <i>might</i>, but chances are it will take a longer acquaintance than just a few conversations to really make friends.  Here's where the internet comes in.  When you meet people and really hit it off, try to get their name and maybe an email or Facebook address.  Write down names in a book if you have to.  Often people have a real name and a steampunk name.  It's ok to ask which name they use on facebook, or if they are on Insert-Your-Favorite-Social-Network-Here.  In my experience most steampunk interaction happens on facebook.  It's certainly true in the Texas community.  There's also the Steampunk Empire, which is meant to be facebook for steampunks, but in practice, I don't think many people really use it.  I find the interface too confusing.  If you want to keep your steampunk persona separate from your RL accounts, make yourself a facebook account under a steampunk name and start friending people.  Make sure you're looking at photo galleries after a con, and finding the people tagged in the photos.  This is a great way to become friends with people you met at a con.   Post your pictures and tag anyone you can, let others tag people, too.  Then keep in touch with people online.  This is how a lot of  steampunks really get to know each other.  They post pictures of their projects and ask for advice and post links, and soon you have a bunch of steampunk friends.  So the next event you attend, hopefully you know some people by name and they know you by name, too.

Part Two: Thoughts for Established Steampunks

It's not only the newbies that need to think about how to best go about social interaction.  There are some things oldies need to take into consideration, too.